Table of Contents

PART I

THE SOJOURNER’S PASSPORT REVEALED

  • The Sojourner’s Path: Black Women, Take Back Your Crowns
  • My Dark-Skinned Sisters, Stop Letting Biracial, Bicultural, Multicultural, and Light-Skinned Women Wear Your Stolen Crowns
  • Black Women, Are You Ready To Feel Flawless?
  • First, Love Yourself As An African-American Woman
  • Why We Must Love Ourselves As African-American Women

PART II

THE SOJOURNER’S PASSPORT TO SAVING YOUR OWN LIFE

  • “All Colored People That Want To Go To Kansas, On 9/5/1877, Can Do So For $5.00”
  • Reality Check: What The Black Underclass Is Really All About
  • The End Of The Road For African-Americans, Part 1: There Is NO “Black Community”
  • The End Of The Road For African-Americans, Part 2: Generation(s) Apathetic
  • The Last Embers Of A Dying Flame: Will You Make It Out Before Darkness Falls?
  • Domestic Violence: You Don’t Need Anybody’s Permission To Save Your Own Life—Just Do It
  • Demographics Are Destiny: What Went Wrong With “Orthodox,” Sunni Black Muslims

PART III

THE SOJOURNER’S PASSPORT TO FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS

  • Let’s Get Serious About Vetting Men, Part 1: Do You Really Want A Fatherless Man To Be The Father Of Your Children?
  • Let’s Get Serious About Vetting Men, Part 2: The Deficits Created By Fatherlessness Are Not “Equal” Between The Genders
  • Let’s Get Serious About Vetting Men, Part 3: Screen OUT Men Who Say That Women Won’t “Let” Them Be Men Or Gentlemen
  • Yet Another Emerging, Disastrous Trend: Normalizing Single Adoption As “Plan B” For Black Women Who Haven’t Married By 35
  • An Open Letter To African-American Women Who Publicly State That They Would Never Date Or Marry Outside Their Race
  • Don’t Miss Out On Marriage Because You’re Fighting A Cultural War That Black Men Abandoned Over 40 Years Ago
  • What Your Daughter Can Expect If She Attends A Historically Black College, Or Exclusively Dates Black Men While Attending A Predominantly White College
  • Why It’s Important To Have Dating Experiences In College
  • Black Women: Why Do You Let “Becky, Lupe, J.Lo, Fatima, And Mei Ling” Indirectly Pimp You?
  • The Mass “Gaslighting” Of African-American Women
  • True Fellowship: Breaking Bread

PART IV

THE SOJOURNER’S PASSPORT TO EFFECTIVE ACTIVISM

  • An Open Letter To Princeton Theological Seminary
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 1: Support Principles, Not Individuals
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 2: Make The Opponent Follow Their Own Rules
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 3: Don’t Delegitimize Your Struggle By Making “White People Are Doing It Too” Arguments
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 4: Handling “Internet Ike Turners”
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 5: Handling “Ikettes”
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 6: Backbiting And Other Destructive Forms of Disagreement
  • Table Talk For Activists, Part 7: An Open Letter To Black Women Bloggers, YouTubers, And Event Organizers

PART V

THE SOJOURNER’S PASSPORT TO FULFILLING WORK

  • Why Black Women Should Leave The Helping Professions
  • The Art Of Black-Owned Business: Avoid Customer Resistance By Having A “Colorless” Business

PART VI

THE SOJOURNER’S PASSPORT TO LIVING YOUR WILDEST DREAMS

  • Black Women Need New Dreams And A Black Women’s Arts Movement
  • Have Your Own “Wildest Dreams” Tour!
  • Wildest Dreams Checklist: Will You Be Ready For Your Breakthrough Moment When It Arrives?
  • Wildest Dreams Checklist: Reboot Your Life By Becoming “Unreasonable”
  • Wildest Dreams Checklist: Are You Living For The Weekends And Dead For The Rest Of The Week?

EPILOGUE

  • A Year From Now
  • My Free Gift To You