Table of Contents

The Sojourner’s Path: Black Women, Take Back Your Crowns
My Dark-Skinned Sisters, Stop Letting Biracial, Bicultural, Multicultural, and Light-Skinned Women Wear Your Stolen Crowns
Black Women, Are You Ready To Feel Flawless?
First, Love Yourself As An African-American Woman
Why We Must Love Ourselves As African-American Women

“All Colored People That Want To Go To Kansas, On 9/5/1877, Can Do So For $5.00”
Reality Check: What The Black Underclass Is Really All About
The End Of The Road For African-Americans, Part 1: There Is NO “Black Community”
The End Of The Road For African-Americans, Part 2: Generation(s) Apathetic
The Last Embers Of A Dying Flame: Will You Make It Out Before Darkness Falls?
Domestic Violence: You Don’t Need Anybody’s Permission To Save Your Own Life—Just Do It
Demographics Are Destiny: What Went Wrong With “Orthodox,” Sunni Black Muslims

Let’s Get Serious About Vetting Men, Part 1: Do You Really Want A Fatherless Man To Be The Father Of Your Children?
Let’s Get Serious About Vetting Men, Part 2: The Deficits Created By Fatherlessness Are Not “Equal” Between The Genders
Let’s Get Serious About Vetting Men, Part 3: Screen OUT Men Who Say That Women Won’t “Let” Them Be Men Or Gentlemen
Yet Another Emerging, Disastrous Trend: Normalizing Single Adoption As “Plan B” For Black Women Who Haven’t Married By 35
An Open Letter To African-American Women Who Publicly State That They Would Never Date Or Marry Outside Their Race
Don’t Miss Out On Marriage Because You’re Fighting A Cultural War That Black Men Abandoned Over 40 Years Ago
What Your Daughter Can Expect If She Attends A Historically Black College, Or Exclusively Dates Black Men While Attending A Predominantly White College
Why It’s Important To Have Dating Experiences In College
Black Women: Why Do You Let “Becky, Lupe, J.Lo, Fatima, And Mei Ling” Indirectly Pimp You?
The Mass “Gaslighting” Of African-American Women
True Fellowship: Breaking Bread

An Open Letter To Princeton Theological Seminary
Table Talk For Activists, Part 1: Support Principles, Not Individuals
Table Talk For Activists, Part 2: Make The Opponent Follow Their Own Rules
Table Talk For Activists, Part 3: Don’t Delegitimize Your Struggle By Making “White People Are Doing It Too” Arguments
Table Talk For Activists, Part 4: Handling “Internet Ike Turners”
Table Talk For Activists, Part 5: Handling “Ikettes”
Table Talk For Activists, Part 6: Backbiting And Other Destructive Forms of Disagreement
Table Talk For Activists, Part 7: An Open Letter To Black Women Bloggers, YouTubers, And Event Organizers

Why Black Women Should Leave The Helping Professions
The Art Of Black-Owned Business: Avoid Customer Resistance By Having A “Colorless” Business

Black Women Need New Dreams And A Black Women’s Arts Movement
Have Your Own “Wildest Dreams” Tour!
Wildest Dreams Checklist: Will You Be Ready For Your Breakthrough Moment When It Arrives?
Wildest Dreams Checklist: Reboot Your Life By Becoming “Unreasonable”
Wildest Dreams Checklist: Are You Living For The Weekends And Dead For The Rest Of The Week?